Real Teens Speak Out

How Does Bullying Make Me Feel

When I see a bully bullying people or little kids I try to help them. If you don’t want to be bullied then don’t bully others. I wonder if bullies feel bad for bulling someone else. I look at bullies like something is wrong with them because being a bully doesn’t feel right. Not like I’ve been a bully before. I just know that it doesn’t feel right being one. It feels real bad. Especially when you’re about 10 years old bulling someone that’s like 5 or 6 years old because they cry, scream, and get depressed.
They don’t even want to go to school. I don’t know why people bully. Is it because their life is so bad so they want to mess up someone else life. I hope bullies feel bad for being a bully. I know that they can’t bully me. No one can bully me because I’m too strong to get bullied. But I just don’t want anyone to bully someone. Everybody that bullies someone should stop because I know they feel bad for doing it. They don’t care if they cry. All they would do is laugh in their faces. They might cry too. To me, it’s so sad to see people getting bullied every day. I’ve got bullied before when I was a younger I was about 4 or 5 years old and it was a girl that was about 15 or 16 years old. I couldn’t do anything about it I was too young. I use thought they were just playing but they weren’t they was serious. Being a bully isn’t so nice. I don’t there are bullies at our school. I hope not because if there are, I would make them stop bulling.
It’s not right to bully someone. I want someone to bully them and treat them the same way they bullied that person. I would be glad to see everyone getting along with each other. And not arguing with each other and cursing at each other like they’re grown but they’re not. It’s time for them to stop bulling people. I hope they eventually know that bulling is a wrong and mean thing to because if they don’t want to get bullied then they shouldn’t bully others.

Being A Bully

Everybody has they own opinion and one of mine is that I don’t like when some people bully other people especially nice people, nice people that don’t bother no one or keep to themselves.

Bullying is a person that is mean and to weaker minded people.

Bullying is not a good thing to do to other people it makes yourself look bad, and certain people wouldn’t have no respect for you and you’ll pay back the wrong you did to people at the end.

I have a story to tell about this young 14 year old boy Ricki. Ricki was kind obese and tall for his age. He lived with his mother and his little 8 year old brother Devon. Ricki and Devon and Mrs. Johnson is a hard working single parent, she lost her husband which is Ricki and Devon father, a couple of years ago he died of an sickness, every since the boys lost their father Ricki started getting in trouble in school, getting kicked out, starting fights with people, bullying younger kids younger than him telling them what to do, forcing the kids to do things they don’t want to do taking their lunches and money from them, bullying younger kids in the neighborhood, also sometimes Ricki will bully his brother Devon and his friends. He will make Devon do his chores and his own chores while they mother gone to work, which Devon is short and slim for his age which he would do what his brother would tell him also he gets tired of his brother ruling him around which the punishments Mrs. Johnson gives Ricki no privileges to do nothing. It won’t do any good to Ricki. Mrs. Johnson found out Ricki got kicked out of school for a week for bullying a younger boy around. Mrs. Johnson got fed up with it put Ricki on another punishment made him go outside to rake all the leaves, cut the grass, water the grass and cut the neighbors grass for free, while Ricki was doing that the younger kid he bullied at school went to go get his bigger older brother he were bigger and taller than Ricki. He came in front of Ricki house told Ricki off about his brother Ricki became kind of scared shaking a little in his shoes as Ricki looked up at him as a bigger giant. He attends to pick Ricki up by one hand from his collard as Mrs. Johnson heard noise outside in the yard she looked out the window as it wasn’t no surprise but a shock with her mouth open and stayed still didn’t attend to come outside to break the fight up as the bigger boy pick Ricki up from the collard, he threw him up on the porch Ricki landed near the door on his rear, as he was hurt, then the bigger boy begin to walk away. Mrs. Johnson hurry and moved away from the window came to the door opened it and told Ricki don’t come in the house until you finish his chores it wasn’t a sign from Ricki mother if she cared about him that moment as she threatened him next time he gets in any trouble and want to bully people she offer him to a boot camp a camp that is not to pleasant to be in for younger boys every sense then Ricki start straightening up being nice to his brother and his friends, kids in the neighborhood, kids in the school attend not to get kicked out of school Ricki promise his self and his mother he wouldn’t be a bully again!

Stop Bullying

What I can do to help stop bullying. I can tell the bully to stop picking. The bullies may not listen to me. The bullies may beat me up. But they should stop picking on the little kids. Don’t be afraid of the bullies.

What I can do to help stop bullying. I could tell the president. He would have a press conference. It would tell the bullies to stop what they are doing. Bullies should not pick on little kids.

What I can do to help stop bullying. I could tell the principle. The principle can give him detention. Or he could get suspended.

I Can Stop Bullying

When you bully you can really hurt someone. Bullying is very mean. Bullying is taking your anger out on someone else. You shouldn’t bully. These are my opinions on bullying.

I’m going to tell you what I can do to stop bullying. I can always tell an administrator. They could suspend or expel the bully. They have a conference with the bully parents and he or she. These are some of the things I can do to stop bullying.

I can do more things to stop bullying. I can talk to the bully. I would ask a lot of questions toward why he/she bully. I would try to make them stop. These are things I can do to stop bullying.

I would encourage the victims to tell an adult. I would tell them to speak up. I would tell them not to get someone to beat up the bully. These are ways I can and you can stop bullying.

Don’t bully.

Heartwrenching

My 8 year old son is being bullied by a fellow classmate. I am going to talk to the principal in the morning. It is heart wrenching when a child doesn’t want to go to school and would rather die than have to face another day at school.

Why do people have to treat others so cruelly

Ready For Whatever Comes

I left public school because of the drama, my parents didn’t want me to suffer through middle school, so they sent me to a christian private school so I wouldnt be teased and bullied.

But my parents and I had no idea what was coming. I started the private school in 7th grade, It was a small class about  about 14 kids in the grade. Who would have guessed that such a small class would bring huge pain. The year started out good until November.Thats when the "clicks" were forming…By December it was clear, me and my best friend were the class "losers".We were bullyed every single day.

And everyday it was eye rollering, glares, "accidently" bumping, notes in our locker,notes taped on our locker and so on and so on that made us feel so worthless and low.We would go on every day wondering why they hated us so much, we would go home often crying,hurt, and depressed.We were so mad and hurt inside that we would go to each others houses and play with stuff animals  like webkinz and act like they were our friends. They really got away with everything and I mean everything from the notes to the voicemails.Soon the year had ended.

Then the next year came with even more drama and pain.Our 8th grade year started  and soon before I knew it the bullies had accepted me and I was thrilled I thought this meant no more pain. I was wrong. The backstabbing had got horrible they were just horrible to me. I had thought that we were friends but they weren’t. I was still hurting so much that I had decided to cut myself. Once I realized what I had done I told my old friend, the one in the "loser" group. I told my parents and then I decided that I was done with the bullies and  I went back to the "loser" group with once again only one friend. The year had ended and me and my friend decided that we were done, done with the school.

Next year we will enter high school and I have learned to be ready, ready for whatever comes.

I’d Love To Teach You To Love

I was bullied when I was in middle school. It was not often by physical violence, but the words and attitude. I think words can hurt more than kicks or punches. At some point I wanted to die. I also ended up lying and making up my own life to feel more comfortable, but that didn’t help. I was made fun of all the time, I was rejected and ended up having only one or two friends at school. And we were all three bullied girls. I didn’t want to go to school anymore, but I had to, and my parents didn’t know about my problems. My grades dropped sharply and I didn’t do the homeworks anymore. When I went to high school, it was totally different and I felt way better. Students are way more mature in high school, and I even had the surprise to get to talk to one of my former bullies who apologized. I forgave them, they were just young immature boys who thought they needed to be recognized and that they would get friends by dissing some others and make themselves look strong. Actually this all experienced contributed to my growth and I am stronger now, and I was more mature than them actually. I want you to know that if you are bullied now, that doesn’t mean you’ll always be. And that doesn’t mean you’re a loser or less valuable than the others. On the contrary, when someone bullies you, it is often that they feel threatened by you because they find in you something that they would like to have. And don’t give up 😉

I wouldn’t want to be you
I wouldn’t want to feel good
Only when I’m mean with someone

Yeah I’d love to be the one to make you grow
I’d love to be the one to let you know
That there’s a better way to have friends
I’d love to teach you love

Breathe

I have written a poem with an idea of how to deal bullies that I think is important to be told.

How to Deal with School Bullies

Were you ever bullied around
During your long high school years?
Did they get you to hate class
And cause you much tears?

Did they give you a wedgie?
Or a wet swirlie too?
Did they take all your money
So you couldn’t get food?

Did they make you lose friends?
Did they use you to blame?
Did they steal your good jokes
Yet say that you’re lame?

Did they cheat off your tests
Did they steal all your work?
Did they embarrass you in public
And say you’re a jerk?

How bad did it hurt?
How much pain were you in?
Was it bad enough to go into your locker
And lock yourself in?

I can’t fully sympathize with
You, if that’s true
But I know someone who feels the same.
Yet he’s made it through.

When the turtle’s attacked by his enemies
The one thing he knows how to do
Is feel comfortable deep in his own shell
As he patiently makes it through.

He doesn’t fight, he doesn’t cry
He just stays there sitting strong
He’s quiet about all that’s said
Yet knows deep down they’re wrong.

He waits alone with just himself
As the predators all quit,
Because what he’s got going for him is way too much
And he can take the hit.

He knows that in time despite that he’s slow
He’ll pass by all of them.
Because he knows inside that they are all rotten
And he’ll be the crème de la crème.

So before you lock yourself in a locker,
Take advice from the turtle, indeed.
Don’t fall cuz of them, don’t change who you are
Keep doing what you do; and breathe.

How Bullying Impacted My Friend

I have a friend who used to never talk to me. It literally took me three years before she actually spoke to me in person. We arenow the best of friends and incredibly close. The reason it took so long for her to come around and talk to me was because she was bullied.

Her freshman year of high school, a girl made fun of her voice. Keep in mind that this was only her freshman year. She was already dealing with being in a new school and knowing no one. So, when this girl made fun of her, she was continuely harassed. She became very insecure and stopped talking; literally never spoke a word all four years of high school.

She is now what one would call a hermit. In the eyes of a professional, she’d probably be told that she has a social phobia disorder.

On a good day, she may hang out with me or go out with her family; but I promise that is very rare.

She told me that she would probably be a very different person, even more outgoing had she never been bullied in high school. I think she still could have been a different person had someone just stood up for her. I didn’t know her well when she was bullied, but if I’d known her better or witnessed someone mess with her, I would have stepped in.

Words do hurt. Sure, some people can handle it, but many can’t. I don’t think people are aware enough of the outcome of verbal harrassment.

My friend could have turned out to be a very outgoing individual. Instead, I have to watch her struggle with the fear of even leaving her own house.

Bullying is a very serious matter. If you ever see someone being bullied at school, or anywhere for that matter, you should always help the person being attacked. Even if you don’t know the person, by you stepping in, you may change that person’s life for the better.